To all my boyfriends! for letting me be one of the Guys

For about 7 years of my life I discovered how light in the head I felt when I hung out with my boyfriends. About 8 or 10 of them. Yes. I had lots of them. And I didn't know that I was a girl in disguise. Being one of the guys liberating in many ways. There was no need to dress up nice or be ladylike at all. They ever really cared who joined the gang as long as the person was open to impromptu evening sessions at bar in the 5km radius and had an empty head. Its the perfect way to beat the stress of being a single girl and not ready to mingle.

I never planned it that way. It seemed like a natural thing at that point. When they had girl trouble I would take them out for a drive, give them the girly angle on their spouse problems. When life would get boring on a saturday afternoon at work we would go have a beer and tikka's in Khan Market. Oh! it was such fun. And then I always had girlfriends too to seek solace, gossip, shop and timepass some more.

All good things must come to an end but I must thank all these fellows for putting up with me and they know who they are. So Thankyou, Thankyou, Thankyou!!!

Status: single/married/seperate/in a relationship/rich/poor/religious (specify religion)/gay/kinky/boss/subordinate/

Status is a matter of curiosity, I discovered that fact over the weekend. And felt like the paparazzi was following me and I'm Kate Moss..........no not funny.........actually some of it is.

I have a profile on a networking site where all my friends are listed. Some are from way back, some I met at parties, some are people I got along at work with so I allowed them to have a little window to know what I'm about. Its really quite a timepass to see some of my irresponsible/flunky friends from school and college become responsible people.

On my profile it showed some information that I thought was unimportant. It said I am single!!!! - what i dint know was it was such a matter of curiosity. Not realizing that my action to just not display that fact would have my inbox bombed!!!! And my phone also spammed!! I was amused and horrified at the same time. So I did try to explain to a few of them but then decided that I dont have to do this. And at some point I started to get really irritated. So I've let it be.

The experience was incredible though. The fact that so many people get a kick about knowing whether you are single/married/seperate/in a relationship/rich/poor/religious (specify religion)/gay/kinky/boss/subordinate/...........okay thats a bit much but you get the picture. I cant deny that maybe i would react the same way if i were the audience but this one was an eye opener.